Never look at a person and judge them on one mistake. They may have made those mistakes for a reason. whether mean, sorrowful, happy or even jealousy their is always another meaning behind it and all you can do is be your best you. even if others do not like you or have hurt you be kind at all times know when to put your hoof down but know that we should do it kindly. you can stand up for yourself without being unpleasent about it. Kindness always returns the favor.