Being the gleeful pony that Pinkie was it was no surprise that she spoiled Cheesecake. Her and Cheesesandwich would always make the effort to teach CheeseCake in small yet grand ways. They taught Cheese to be generous. For example. Growing up Cheese would be a bit stubborn. When it came to sharing food or drinks Cheesecake was not one for it. As a way to work around this Pinkie and cheese compared it to throwing a mini party for someone. Giving a gift would make ponies happy. Cheesecake loved seeing ponies smile so naturally she gave in. Little things like that.
Again, pinkie pie was the light hearted mom. When things got tricky she never quite knew how to handle them. She never wanted to be the mom who would bring down the hammer or even be mean to her kids. Never wanting to put your kids down or even get stern led to some hard to handle moments. But all in all Pinkie did a pretty good job by being a friend and a parent to her kid.