this is probably how im gonna do my headcanons, ill do the mane six member and then their significant other <3
tempest is definitely a lesbian, hands down no thinking necessary i see her as a trans woman as well! she/her pronouns for her!
as for everything else, i kept her body type the same, added a few more scars and she lost both her horn and a part of her foreleg (she did survive a literal bear attack) also she has a glass eye and she definitely does tricks with it to gross people out she also doesnt have a cutiemark on purpose because she still hasnt found her special talent and honestly she could care less
she works as captain of the friendship guard (twilight's specially appointed guard by celestia) and loves her princess partner and children very much <3